Exercise help

So after having a radical hysterectomy with BSO last October it was followed with 6 rounds of heavy chemo. I finished in March and went back to work in April. It was too soon, I know that now. I wasn’t physically ready but mentally I just wanted to get on and live a normal life again. 

8 months I’ve been back at work. I do office work so not too active but we are up and down a lot for files and scanning and copying etc. I have a 9 year old and I’m married so I have the usual housework that comes with that. 

My problem is I always ache or hurt. Im always exhausted. I’m comfort eating to get by but I really need to lose the weight I’ve gained. Part of the problem is I don’t have enough energy so lighter meals and healthy options just don’t appeal. Another part is exercise. I am fairly active given that I have a child and an almost full time job. I walk a little to and from work but i just don’t seem to have the energy to “exercise”. I’ve tried a little floor exercises tonight, leg lifts, arm raises etc. 

I have no idea if it’s going to help so I kind of give up. Can anyone give me any tips or help with this. Am I expecting too much too soon? 

One doctor said I need to walk the dog more but like I said I’m exhausted before i try do this. It would tip me over the edge if after a day working and school drops offs, sometimes pick ups and sometimes working late to then have to walk the dog too. (He gets walked, just not by me)

Then another doctor said the chemotherapy was so high I will probably never return to how I was before it. So what do I expect of myself. Do I try and do these small exercises? Are they enough? I think they aren’t so don’t bother then I’m back to doing nothing. 

Any advice?

Thanks x 

  • Hello, don't under estimate the punishing treatment your body has  had to go through, not only with the op but chemo itself, I know mentally you want to crack on ( and that's good) but your body needs some extra tlc. How about a yoga class? Start gentle.....or how about taichi? I do slimming world ( currently on a break due to a breast cancer diagnosis) I am lucky and have a very good club leader who listens and understands....any slimming clubs in your area? 

    Lastly...be kind to yourself, how about a meditation class? Once it all clicks nicely in your mind...the rest will follow....... xxxx

  • Thanks for some ideas. And for making me feel normal. I will have a look for a yoga class in my area. I have a lovely slimming world group in my area but I can’t make the times for it. The class I can make it to is run by someone who doesn’t even know my name despite going for a long time and even after explaining my cancer diagnosis and the need for a break she would still send “come back to group” type texts. 

  • You ARE normal....completely normal.....yoga may relax your mind too....

     

    Slimming clubs only work really well with good club consultants, you certainly don't need texts reminding you to go when all you want to do is curl up in a ball! 

    And like I said before, don't underestimate the enormity of the treatment you went through......how are your check ups going? Xxx

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    Hi G xx 

    Well that sounds completely normal to me xx I hate exercise but have found pleasure in dancing and walking round the block plugged in to my favourite music. If I didn’t have the music I wouldn’t go....it motivates me and gives me energy xx

    i was a runner for years and hated every second. This young man at work (18) asked why I was torturing myself with running when I found it so unpleasant and then told me that exercise had to be something I enjoyed which I then thought made a lot of sense. So I gave up running for walking immediately xx I walk on my lunch break (.....could you nip out on your break?) and sometimes when I get in (I live in the middle of a large, built up estate and so it’s safe to do this on my own) xx 

    Agree that Slimming world is a fab diet and can be done without you having to attend a group...you can just follow it yourself or do the online option xx you can have big and comforting food portions on that. 

    i intermittently fast now...that works....lost a lot of weight....not sure it is healthy though! xx