Hi gemini  ... just coz your decorating and things look different and fresh , that's really lovely ... and don't feel like it means erasing memories , that are not in things, they just stay in your heart, where you keep them always ... and remember it's only been three months ... my mum died in 1989 and she's still in my thought throughout the day and I'm just bringing her along with me, in my heart ...

There is no right or wrong way to grieve ... no time limits ... you just need to go with how you feel at the time .... so look after your heart, and be kind to your self ... Chrissie xx