My husband has just been diagnosed with inoperable Stage 4 lung cancer. His diagnosis came in Feb and so far he has had 2 radiation treatments and 1 chemo treatment. His chemo is 5 hours long and he feels great for the first 3 days, then things went downhill from there. He has a pluerex in to drain his lung, but often now they can't do it because he is not eating enough or drinking enough and that tanks his already low blood pressure. He knows it is the only way get through it as the drs have told him and the nurses. He still hardly eats. I am frustrated. I know he can't help it, but I also know it is his only way out of this for now. Not sure what to do, I am so tired of being a nag and even more tired of feeling like a babysitter. And I know that sounds petty and selfish considering what he is going through.