My Dad, and best friend, is dying of mesothelioma and a second lung cancer. He's home now and being supported by hospice nurses, district nurses and gp who are all trying. But he puts a front on with them and says he's OK but he isn't. He's getting very stroppy with me and Mum, obsessing about irrelevant things, and there's not one else to help. I'm bi-polar and he's always dragged me through my bad times and now I'm letting him down by not being able to drag him through this. Has anyone been through this and can say how long he'll be like this? He#s having no treatment, it's all too late. The GP said it wouldn't be long, but what does that even mean?