Hi All,
My dad has advance prostate cancer - it's in the lymphs, spine, skull and now theres a shadow on the liver. He's been told bythe Doctors how long he's got, but I think the trauma of it has made him forget.
He's not living his life, or spending his hard-eraned savings enjoying life doing bucket-list stuff, as he thinks he's going to need his money in 15-20 years. There's a total disconnect with what he's being told and how he's living his life.
There's still a lot he wants to do, but won't spend the money doing it.
I can't bring myself to tell him the truth if this is his way of dealing with it, but by the same time, me and my sister aren't getting to make any memories. And I know in 6-12 months he's going to be bed-ridden and realzing he's wasted his time, as then he really will be too ill to go and do his bucket-list stuff.
So what do I do, let him deal with it his way, or try and get through to him. And if the latter, how do you even go about doing that?
Thanks for anyone's thoughts, in advance :)