My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer in August this year.
We met with his oncologist last week who said to me he may only have a few months left to live.
My dad didn't want to know his prognosis as he believes hope is important. I am fine with that decision, but it's causing me a few problems.
I'm obviously keen to get his affairs in order, but every suggestion is met with;
"There's no rush, I'll be around for a few years yet"
How do I gently push this without alerting him to his actual prognosis?
I'm finding it so hard keeping this news to myself and trying to stay upbeat for both my parents.
Has anyone dealt with a similar situation and can offer some advice?