Just looking for some advice my dad aged 76 has been diagnosed beginning of December with lung cancer caused by asbestos, he has been told he is too weak for any treatment, he has lost so much weight and is getting weaker everyday.  One of his lungs has collapsed and the doctors are just leaving it, the cancer has also spread quite a bit and in 4 weeks from last scan the cancer had quadrupled.  He would not let any of his family meet with the doctor only himself and he has told us the doctor told him he has two years.  I think and also my family think he has made this figure up as he doesn’t want to face reality, at minute the cancer word is banned but he is getting weaker by the minute.  He has McMillan coming in and is on a low dose of morphine to help him sleep as he coughs all the time.  He is also becoming very aggressive (not physical, just mental) towards my brother and my husband, he is ok with me but he just won’t allow me to mention anything related to his health, looking for some advice as I don’t know what to do, also I need to know how long he has left and he just won’t talk, I do not believe the doctor said two years.  Any advice much appreciated.