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About CancerHi every one who posted to me yesterday ,its nice people care and know what im going threw havnt been to bad today managed to take my neighbours dog for a walk in the sunshine also going out with my friend tonight for a couple of hours. but im well aware that im going to come home to a empty house .
Syl,
I know what you mean about going home to an empty house it is simply heartbreaking, you just miss telling them about your day, laughing with them, I absolutely hate it. Hugs to you be strong xxxxxxxxx Debbie
Hi debbie, just come in have been out for tea with my friend , it was very nice but i wish with all my heart it was my husband i was with its not the same going out any more i hope it gets easier as time goes on hope your ok regards Syl xx
Im sat on my own its sunday for the first time in over 40 yrs ive had a marks and spencers Sunday dinner, had a cry today the weather is lovely if my husband was here we would have gone out for the day , feel so alone now even when people are around me syl
Oh Sylvia, I know exactly what you mean cried almost all day today I'm so lonely xxxxxxx
Hi I'm only 3 weeks into losing my husband it's so hard just trying to get through the day with lots to sort out I too Igo home to an empty louse I feel so alone II'm praying for the day things start to ease a little I cry every day today has been a bad day for me right now I just want him here with me but I know it's impossible I miss him s much
I feel so lonely at night its awful not having any body to talk to or make a cup of tea for ,its 11week now sometimes it seems worse now than it did in the early days .
You look a lovely couple i know its hard try to remember the good times like i have to ,i cant look at some of the photos on my tablet as they make me so sad , i have some nice photos of him in differant parts of my home i talk to them they make me feel better. Hugs to you syl
Can some one tell me how to cope at night when you dont have any one to talk to only the TV and the cat .
Syl, it's so hard isn't it I'm also on my own (not even got a cat) I have the tv on most of the time I hate the silence. Debbie xxxx
Hi Debbie cried most of the afternoon , its a lovly day we would have been out some where to day its so sad now im on my own people tell you not to think like that but i cant help it. Syl x
Syl, I know we would have been out walking or doing the garden my heart is broken. How can people say don't think that way when our husbands are constantly on our minds, they just don't understand how lonely it is. Take care xxx Debbie
We were perfect together we only found each other 12 years ago it was a holiday romance my husband was Spanish I'm English but I've been living in Spain for 11years I today we had a memorial service at the church in our village many people there he was very popular and then had to come home alone done nothing but cry since I got in miss him so much
Hi debbie been out with my daughter and her partner to monkey forest then we had a nice meal in a pub,lovely day just wish my husband was with us he would have enjoyed it.back home now to a empty house ITS AWFUL dont think i will ever get used to it hope your ok today regards Syl x
Hi wishy be kind to your self its early days for you yet its nearly 3 month since my husband died,it only seems like yesterday some days are harder than others every body says take one day at a time ,this is good advice .take care Syl x
