Hello clairey1983.

Thanks for posting a question.

I'm sorry to hear about your father and that his referral has caused some confusion.

Hopefully some of our members who have been in a similar situation will be here soon to chat with you and give advice but until then if you feel like talking to someone medically trained might help, our cancer nurses are available on this phone number 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9 a.m. - 5 p.m.

Best wishes,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator