Hello

I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you at this very hard time and hoping you can still enjoy Christmas  

I am so sorry to hear your news and no doubt you are going through a lot of different emotions just now.

I hope as time goes on you will know more about what your husband is facing and then there will be a plan of action you can concentrate on.

Thinking of you and sending a big hug

I also feel very much for you at this difficult time.  Do you think it would be worthwhile asking your doctor to tell you as much as s/he knows - doctors are fallible too and I guess there are things they come across that don't always follow the usual pattern but it would be useful to have a frank discussion about the situation.  Perhaps you would not worry so much if you did this?  You must indeed be frightened for your husband; I hope you are able to talk with him and also with any wider family who will also be worried and want to help you.  My best wishes also.