hello all,
next week will be the 1 year anniversary to my step mums passing from various health reasons but lung cancer the main one, the doctors always said the cancer wouldnt get her and that it would be her heart and i suppose they both did, she passed on my dads birthday which is bad but we all knew it would be his last has he had terminal cancer which was progressing at a fast rate, so not only did we lose mum that day we lost dad in some way because he went into decline, and i nursed him for 7 weeks until he went to be with her, so next week is approaching and i feel nothing but dread, dread for the memories and the sadness to come ... i miss her loads she was so kind and funny and everyone knew her where we lived she was a legend but i feel we never grieved her passing because we all went into looking after dad..
how will we get through this date ?
does it get easier ? cos when the sadness hits me i put it in a box in my head and lock the lid im not ready to open the wound.
L x