Colon cancer in family

My brother has told me today that he's been diagnosed with colon cancer.  We lost our Mum three years ago to colon cancer.  She had an extremely short battle.  I've told him I'll be there for him, his wife and their family.  I can do running around for appointments etc.  I don't know what else to say to him.  I think I'm being selfish but the last thing I want to hear is that we're going to lose him too.  Having seen what Mum went through, I hate the thought of what may be ahead,  He's the only blood family I have left and he's been a star ever since Mum died. 

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat Tufty although I'm sorry to be greeting you under these circumstances.

    I don't think you're being selfish tufty. You've been through so much already and know the difficult road that lies ahead so it's important to look after yourself when supporting a loved one with cancer. Try not to be too hard on yourself for feeling this way. 

    Many of our members know the difficulties that come with being in this situation and I'm sure some of them will reply when they can to offer their support and advice.

    Do keep talking to us if you find it helps tufty.

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator