Hello my mum is 83 previously to March this year was a very fit healthy young for age lady got diagnosed with inoperable hilar Cholangiocarcinoma she declined treatment as her quality of life has been really good she continued to work her part time job until a month ago and then became jaundiced and very poorly spent a month in hospital and has aged 20 years lost 3 stone in weight we are all so shocked she is now very weak an unable to walk more than 10 paces we have no support no Macmillan nothing at all follow up only from the constant we keep getting told to go to A and E but now she refuses to go after 3 occasions of spending 3 days in a corridor on a trolley waiting for a bed is Amy one else exaspand at the end of their tether with end of life /palliative care? I'm looking after her on my own we had to 999 her into hospital and it took 20 mins for them to answer the phone and 6 hours for an ambulance as she was breathing and not bleeding ! I'm just distraught at the whole care system
