Thank you fir the support from this forum . Ian so glad of any support in dealing with wifes cancer. The power of a phone call txt vist etc is everything to me . My daughter &family are coming over this week end  the support is fantastic & will stay with me for ever. My own family is small & mum only lost dad to cancer last year .I as m list when problems occur at night (lost of feeling in fingers left hand. And feel useless &isolated. I don't know if other carres feel like the loneliest person on the planet. Bank hols are a nightmare . People need people I never realised so much .x