Hi, I am new to this site and not really sure what to say. My brother was diagnosed with stomach cancer in January and told he had up to a year to live. Up until recently he has been in fairly good health and it was easy to forget that he had this dreadful disease, but over the last couple of weeks his health has gone downhill very fast. He was admitted to hospital at the weekend as he was severely dehydrated due to being sick everytime he ate or drank anything. I was told today that he is now there to die, he has stopped eating all together now. I visited him today and was totally shocked at the ghost of the man that was there.He has so little strength left and has started to see things that are not there due to the morphine he is on. My Sister in law has told me that they will steady increase the dosage of morphine so that he sleeps more. I am finding it really hard to accept that I am going to loose him soon, I love my brother so much. I lost my mum at an early age and my heart is breaking for my neice and nephews knowing what they are facing. My Sister in law is so strong, I wish I had had her strength. Don' t know how I am going to get through this, sometimes feels like there is noons to speak to, noone outside the family really understands