Hi sugarpuff, like the name, i try and find [@Marlin]‍ , [@Chris S]‍ or [@Sandra123]‍ will get in touch hopefully soon,. 

Thank you Billygoat, I hope I get some responses soon

Sorry forgot to say some are on forum part time,. 

How long before someone usually replies, I’m desperate here for some words of reassurance

I'm sorry I'd have thought they'd be on by now I've left a note to tell them it depends we're they are. 

Billy 

Thanks you, [@Billygoat]‍ How do other people notice new posts?  Do you just have to hope for the best? Sorry, I’m new to this x

Hi i just noticed yours by @at beginning of name it sends message saying call me 

Like i said there no on forum full time, possibly have not joined yet should notice when on,. 

Billy 

I'll talk if you want but not got same problem, I'm non curable C over 3 years now, lodes of others have been there done that got the badge,., can you keep yourself occupied find things you like to do i know it hard but that's what most of us try to do. 

Billy 

Hello love, just popped on and saw your post. Now...deep breaths.....

clear margins is great, it means it hasn't infiltrated the breast tissue, ok now the nodes....they're removing some? This is a good thing! Get those wee beggars out and tested....it won't be long before you get the path report back and a treatment plan put in place....just because there may be some cells in the nodes doesn't necessarily mean chemotherapy and if it did? Guess what? There are loads of us here who have been through it and out the other side...

You mustn't get ahead of yourself, that's what does your head in...all the what ifs, how's, whys....you must take it step by step....in the beginning I could only manage hour by hour....I thought my world was collapsing....then I found this forum....what a God send! 

So many inspirational people....billygoat, chriss Sandra jolamine twintwo... to name but a few.....I'm sorry you've had to join our club but we're pretty awesome!! Xxxx