So I'm struggling with a lot of my emotions at the moment and in particular I'm angry.
In Aug 21 I was reffered to my local breast clinic via the 2 week path way after finding a thickening/ lump on my right breast, I had a physical examination and then the lump ultrasound. The doctor thought it was benign but I had a core needle biopsy and results came back in 2 weeks and confirmed it was pash a benign condition. I was given no further information and no follow up. I felt uneasy about the lack of info so I rang the breast clinic for more info it was vague.
End of September I still felt anxious about it and it was growing, I mentioned it to my gp who offered to write to the breast veins for more info. With a week my gp phoned me and said the clinic had told him it shouldn't be growing so he was refferong me back again on the 2 week pathway. I was seen by a doctor who made it clear she thought I didn't need to be there. She did a quick physical examination and said it was due to my monthly cycle.
Fast forward to Xmas day I found a swollen lymph node above my collar bone on the same side as my breast lump. Back to gp very worried now, reffered back to breast clinic for the 3rd time, where it was confirmed as an aggressive invasive ductal cancer with more than one tumour. Pet scan has slowly found possible spread so it's looking likely that it'll be stage 4 now. Struggling to process howvthis has happened! I'm 37 with 2 beautiful daughters age 10 and 7. I'm just devastated x