I just wanted to say a thank you for the replies from my post yesterday. I don't know what magic happened, I managed to get a little more (not a lot) sleep, and have got up this morning in a more positive frame of mind. Perhaps it was just voicing the fears, I don't know......but it has helped put things more into perspective.
You are indeed all terrific, lovely people and I would very much like to keep in touch.
Hugs to you all xx