Hi everyone,
Have been for some months here in the forum but I'm looking for new advice...Introduction: my 43-year-old boyfriend has colon cancer with liver and lung Mets, and it's terminal. He was diagnosed last year and had several chemotherapy treatments. On the 21st February, Doctors said he could live 2 months but I'm afraid he will live less.
He's very weak, skin and bones, so weak he almost doesn't move, almost can't get up or do any kind of effort. He is also eating too little, a bowl of cereal, a soup and maybe a piece of bread in a whole day. Doctors asked if he wanted to be hospitalised but he said no yesterday.
I don't know if we should force him, and get him hospitalized to get him more comfortable, and have nutrients injected in his veins or wtv, or if we should respect his wishes and let him do whatever he wants. I'm just not sure if he's ok to decide anything but probably he doesn't have much time. I never did this before!
I feel so guilty that I can only be with him on weekends. It seems that he misses me a lot and that he feels better with my presence... (Unfortunately I live and work in another city)
Thank you...