My dad was admitted to hospital three weeks ago after my sister spotted blood in his toilet. Tests said his kidneys were at 3%. He said he felt fine.
After a procedure on his kidney his doctors told me he suspects his kidneys began to fail due to a blockage in his bladder. He strongly belives it's bladder cancer. Other scans show masses on his lungs and abdomen if that's correct the prognosis is terminal. He had a turbt procedure on Monday and we are waiting for results.
He suffers from korsakoffs which means he has an inability to remember things.
Just looking for advice on how long he may have left given the disease seems advanced and also on how to tell him? He has intellect so he'll understand and be upset but then he may forget again in a few days which would mean telling him again which seems cruel
