Hi Zoelouise

I am so sorry to hear that your Mum is failing fast. She may find it a reassuring transition to have this shadow of her Mum by her side. It's amazing how our beliefs can chage when we are nearing the end.

What a pity that she is snappy with you. This is often due to her medication, so do your best not to retaliate.

Try not to worry about how you will cope when you lose her. At present she is still with you, so make the most of these final days. It is so difficult to cope. I lost my own Mum to metastases from breast cancer many years ago. She survived for 12 years before she developed secondaries in her liver, lungs, bones and brain, so I have some idea of just how hard you must be finding this at present.  I still miss her every day, but I have gradually come to terms with my loss over the years.

I am thinking of and praying for you both.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx