Basal Cell Carcinoma surgery

Hi everyone

I haven't been here for quite a while (a year!) 

In December of last year I had surgery to remove a basal cell carcinoma from my forehead.  I found out in February this year that the margins were not clear and I would have to have further surgery.  At that point I went to my GP and asked to be referred to a big teaching hospital. This delayed everything by several months but was the best decision.

On October 26th I had further surgery to remove the rest of the cancer.  This was successful and they were able to tell me on the day that all the tumour was gone.  One week later I was given a BioDesign graft by the maxillofacial team. This is quite a new procedure but I have been healing well.

Two months on and I am still attending hospital to have the dressing changed every week.  Now I have an infection in the wound and have to start antibiotics.  I am struggling a lot at the moment.  This feels like forever.  I want my life back.

Doctors say that if you are going to get cancer this is the best one as it is rarely fatal and very slow growing.  However this has certainly not been an easy experience. I have a wonderful team of doctors and a nurse specialist who are taking care of me but they cannot tell me how long this is going to take to heal. It will take as long as it takes.  I could really use some encouragement.

  • Hi RayofHope

    I hope you are able to get the infection under control, after which you should heal really quickly. Once the dressings are off you must look after the skin graft and not damage it or get an insect bite on it. Keep it moisturised and protected from UV light. Also in the longer term keep a close watch on the surrounding area for any recurrence. Although this is causing you considerable anguish and will cause you a disfiguring scar you are extremely unlikely to die from it. Hopefully you will be able to arrange your hair or use make up to hide the scar. There is a charity that can provide exact match makeup for you. You will get your life back, in fact you already have, you just havent realised it yet. Best wishes Kim

  • "Although this is causing you considerable anguish and will cause you a disfiguring scar you are extremely unlikely to die from it."

    I found your remark to be quite offensive and undermining of my experience. I had already stated that this cancer is very rarely fatal but as far as I am aware having terminal cancer is not a requirement of joining this forum.  We all have our own battles with this disease, no one's is less than anyone else's.

    When I posted here a year ago I was welcomed as part of an inclusive community where we are all united by our common struggles with cancer.

    Cancer Research is not a discriminatory charity. The nurses support me and answer my questions the same as they do for any form of cancer.

    If the only response I get from this forum is to belittle my experience then it would seem that the people who are now members here are not very nice to know anyway.

    I'm sorry I am not ill enough to be included here. Very upset.

  • Hi RayofHope

    I am really sorry that I upset you, I took ages to write something that I hoped would give you some hope. To reassure you that your life will get better and back on track. Even some advice gained from my personal experience of what you are going through. I am just an ordinary person, not gifted with writing skills, so please forgive me if my post came across with two meanings it wasnt intended that way. Kim