Hi.  I have been told earlier today that I have advanced metastatic melanoma cancer which is basically spread everywhere and to the brain.  No real signs of anything until I had a chest infection I couldn't get rid off at the beginning of december and the normal chest X-ray was abnormal and then CT scans revealed the worst possible news I could have expected at 48 years old.  My daughter has brought her wedding forward from May to 4 weeks so i can be there hopefully.  The treatment is readio on my brain to keep that at bay whilst being on steroids.  The wait another 2 weeks before they start.... Why the delay ??? Why not straight away if Im in a bad way, suppose no space or is there no hope that I will even make these treatments?  I need to know how long I have so I can ensure Im here for my daughter in 4 weeks....