any other options? please....someone reply !!

i just need advice from everyone if thats ok.....

im desperately trying to see if there is any other option out there that will increase my mum's life expectancy past the few weeks (tops ) that she has beeon given.

I just cannot accept that this is the end !!!

my mum has alzheimers, and, at 72 we thought all her symptoms were part of this horrible disease. Little did we know that she would pass all doctors tests, scans etc over the last few months  then enter hospital with low blood pressure to be told she had a 10cm ulcered tumour that is inoperable due to her frail state and lack of understanding.

Chemo is not being given.

we have had to push for 1 radiotherapy treatment to stem any bleeding .

surely there is something else?

i cant accept that 'it could happen today - it could happen in a few weeks'.........

NO !!!!!!!! i simply cant accept this and desperately desperately looking for advice or suggestions.

i type through tears streaming down my face. i cant accept this !!!!!

please....any suggestions ?????

a very very very sad daughter.

  • Hi there ..

    My heart goes out to you .. loosing a mum is one of the hardest things we go through ..

    I wish I had a magic wand ... but this cancer is so crule... what I would say, is walk this last journey side by side ... just hold on to any time you have ...

    My sister is in the late stages of dementure ... I know the heartache of that ... but I wonder how confused she'd be if she had been offered chemo .. I'm not sure how they could cope with that .. so take some solice in that she won't go through those effects from chemo .. 

    Hold on in there .. Will be thinking of you, and sending you a vertual hug ... Chrissie x