We recently discovered my father has bowel cancer that has spread to his liver.. we are waiting for his first appointment with the cancer team to find out what treatment he can have, but obviously we are all in shock and very upset, I have 2 children with autism who are noticing everything changing and don’t know why.. how do you break this news or should I keep the children in the dark for aslong as possible? I have tried hiding it from them but I seem to spontaneously burst into tears through out the day and they are noticing that so I don’t know what to do now.. any advice?