Abit lost

Hi very new to all this, I’m jessica 30 yo married for 18 months and around 12 months ago my husband (35 yo) was diagnosed with an “ in situ” melanoma from a mole on his back ... long story short wrong diagnosis turns out he’s stage 3 I think 3C he had huge axilla clearance and neck clearance at the beginning of this year, 3 months later they scammed him because of headaches and found a mass in his brain, surgery happened 3 weeks later good surgery and we were sent on our way ... few weeks ago had a scan before starting SRS (stereotactic radiotherapy surgery) on scanning him to pinpoint another 2 masses found under a centimetre at that point. Looking at him if he didn’t have scars you wouldn’t think he was ill he came out of the blue last night and said “ I don’t think I’ll be here in 12 months”  needless to say it flawed me ... has anyone had any similar experience with this pattern of cancer??? 

 

Jess. X 

  • Hi there, I think more of us then you know, get these feelings .. befor my op for brest cancer, I was so sure I wouldn’t come through it (as I have a lot of other Heath issues too) I wrote all my loved ones letters telling them how much I loved them ... even wrote my funeral I wanted ... when I came round from first mastectomy, thought I’d got away with it ... rushed back to theatre at 3 a m with a bleed and waited for my son as I wanted to see him just one more time ... needless to say , I’m here writing to you .. so hold on in there ... and here’s hoping you will have more memories yet to come ... I take every day now as a bonus ... I will make the most of life for however long or short I have ... so hope you can do similar and walk this journey of his, and live for the day ... sending you both a big hug ... Chrisie xx