Mum passed away 26th September last year, my father is english, mum was chinese, tomorrow is Chinese New Year, trying to type through tears. It's so hard. I actually understand when others say they just want to go, you just can't comprehend life without your mum. My heart misses a beat and I can't get my head around the fact that mum isn't here. Seeing dad tomorrow, I try not to get upset in front of him because I know he worries and he put's on a brave face for me, not sure I am going to be able to hold it together when I see him. You think you're getting on ok and then it's like somebody hits you in the face and you can't control the tears