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Where is Kimchoson?

31 Jan 2017 16:51

Has anybody heard from @kimchoson ‍  lately?  I am worried that he hasn't been on for a few months now, most unlike  him.

Wishing everyone well.

Hazel x

Re: Where is Kimchoson?

3 Feb 2017 08:49 in response to haze44

Hello Hazel,

I've been wondering exactly the same thing Hazel! I also very much enjoy reading @kimchoson ‍ 's contributions and also hope that all is well with him.

It's nice to see all the friendships that have been formed on the forum and how much you care for and support one another.

Best wishes,


Re: Where is Kimchoson?

5 Feb 2017 00:21 in response to haze44

Hi Kimchoson,

I hope that all is ok.

Hugs. X

Re: Where is Kimchoson?

16 Feb 2017 15:01 in response to haze44

HI hazel hope u don't mind me coming on here I want 2 ask if anyone here'd from  [@cococat]‍  last time she sign in was November hope everything ok thanks x 

Re: Where is Kimchoson?

17 Feb 2017 23:26 in response to Gemini39

Of course not, Gem.  It's always concerning when we don't hear from someone who has previously been quite active on here, isn't it?

Hazel xx

Re: Where is Kimchoson?

18 Feb 2017 10:02 in response to haze44

I may be wrong and confusing Kim with someone else but I seem to remember Kim was taking a break from CC. However, I can't find the post which said this.


Re: Where is Kimchoson?

18 Feb 2017 12:58 in response to davek

Thanks Dave - I hope you're right, I shall have a search myself later. 

Wishing you all the best!

Hazel x

Re: Where is Kimchoson?

19 Feb 2017 10:08 in response to haze44

Hi all

there is always concern on here when we talk to people dealing with cancer when it all goes quiet

its a difficult one to move forward

The majority of us who now advise others, our intentions are pure, but if something has happened then we are left thinking the worst

perhaps it would be an idea that when you sign up that you have to give a second email, but on the other hand it may not be such a good idea, as any family member dealing with a situation I am sure will not want to be prompted by an email asking for an update

its a difficult one and a personal one too

i have spoken to fellow sufferers in the past who's partners eventually finish off their post and perhaps this is a better way .... just give you close friend or partner you login and when the time is right make a post.

as previous posts suggests sometimes people just take a break

who knows it's just one of those things that we are just going to hope for the best


Re: Where is Kimchoson?

27 Feb 2017 23:08 in response to Vatch

Thanks Vatch, yes it's a difficult one, I agree.  We can only hope that all is well, but I do find it upsetting.

Take care, all the best.

Hazel x



Re: Where is Kimchoson?

27 Feb 2017 23:14 in response to Vatch

Hi Vatch,

Before Max56 died she asked her husband to text me once she'd gone in order to let her online friends know the news. I've already asked my wife to do something similar when I finally pop my clogs.

At least that way people know that if I'm not online for a while it is more likely that I'm away on holiday than bad news Happy 



Re: Where is Kimchoson?

28 Feb 2017 07:33 in response to davek

Dave and hazel

this is a difficult one indeed

Perhaps it's one for the moderators to take forward .... god knows how I include them in this ... hopefully they pick it up somehow

i guess, although our intentions are good, waiting to be updated by a grieving relative (if this is the case) is a task that I would expect to be way down their list of priorities, regardless  of it's facilitated by a text, email or some other means.

apart from that I will just work on the basis that they are enjoying life and so they should



Re: Where is Kimchoson?

28 Feb 2017 10:15 in response to Vatch

Hello Vatch, 

Thanks for giving us a shout about this. 

It's a shame we've not heard anything on here from @kimchoson ‍in a while. We'd love to be able to contact him but I'm afraid we can't, due to our forum privacy policy. 

Let's hope that, as you say, he's enjoying life and taking a little break. We'll certainly be keeping our eyes peeled in case he pops back! 

Best wishes,