Our mum has been diagnosed with Lung, Colon , Brain and shoulder cancer. I have also just started a new job and finding hard to focus. Just feel so numb and if I'm honest it's breaking me, my sister is staying with our mum and I feel so helpless as I feel that I am not doing my part. Our mum has been so strong and is optimistic but deep down I feel that she knows. How can I support my mum and my sister.