Hi. I was shocked when my sis in law advised me in December that she had breast cancer... she went for ct scan and started chemo on 27th December. Had results 2 days ago, expecting good news. No, spread to spine, bones, liver.. stage 4 terminal. Cannot get my head round it. Really upset and shocked. Can't tell her how long she has. She has 2 young children and I feel so helpless and sad... don't know what to do or say?