My husband has renal cancer that has metastasis to his lungs
Welcome to Cancer Chat Lin although I'm really sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis and that it has spread to his lungs.
Many members here have been in similar situations with their partners and loved ones and hopefully some of them will be along soon to offer their support. I've also found that @tiaviolet was diagnosed with renal cancer earlier this year and hoping to connect with others so they may also pop by to chat about their experiences now I've tagged them in this post.
Best wishes to you and your husband at this difficult time,
Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator