Not sure what to think or say right now as everything just feels surreal. I was diagnosed on Thursday 20 Sept 2018 with breast cancer and I feel like I am stuck in the baddest of dreams. The worst part out of all of this was telling my family who I know are really worried and it doesnt help that I am not ready to talk about this with them. The cancerous tissue covers a small area and is not in my lymph nodes and has been caught at a very early stage so in that respect I feel extremelly lucky. I have been told I will require lumpectomy, radiotherpay and medication so I really should be grateful that things are not more serious. My emotions are all over the place and at the moment I need to be on my own to process all of this and to also avoid questions from my family and friends. I could be in a very large crowd at the moment and still feel isolated. My family and friends have been great but all I want to do just now is get away from all of this. Is wanting to be alone a natural reaction? I put on my usual make-up on Saturday 22 Sept 2018 and when I looked in the mirror I just didnt look like me, I kept looking at myself in the mirror repeating in my head "you have breast cancer". I dont know why but I took all my make up off before leaving the house to go meet some friends for a lunch that had been arranged a few months previously. I know everything is normal around me but things just dont feel normal anymore.