not posted before but looking for help please. my mum died on Sunday she had battled cancer for 3 years and Sunday it all happened it was over. I can't cope I can't function I feel like I want to die too but I have two small children of my own. I spent most days with my mum going to the park or Costa or few shops watching a movie every day it was me my mum and my children. the loss is too much to bare.
Hi there, so so sorry on your mum passing ... I lost my mum and she was my buddy too, like your mum... I had 2boys and they adored her ... it really hits home when the word never see her again sinks in ... I felt totally lost until I realised if she could see me suffering, she would be heartbroken... she loved it when she saw us laughing... she went suddenly with a heart attach... so we’d talk about her, we’d have a few tears ... my 7 year old said he wanted to go to heaven to be with her ... but I filled them with good memories... we’d remember all the loving things she’d done and how much she loved them ... 27 years on they still put pictures of them on face book as babies and her holding them with a smile that lit a room up ...
we were blessed to have wonderful mums... so many will never know what that’s like ... it will take time .. you never stop missing them ... they stay in our hearts forever.... but slowly we get used to not having them around ... though I like to think they look over us ... sending you a big hug ... Chrisie ❤️ X
Welcome to the forum Allthestars although I'm sorry to read about the sad circumstances under which you are posting and on behalf of the moderation team I would like to offer you our sincerest condoldences on your mum's passing.
I know you're hurting right now but I just want you to know you are not alone. Many members here know how you are feeling having lost their parents to cancer and I'm sure some of them will post soon to offer their support and share their experiences with you.
If you feel like things are getting really tough do consider contacting Cruse. They are a bereavement service that offers support to those who have lost someone close and may be able to help you through this difficult time.
Keep chatting to us on the forum Allthestars and remember that we are always here when you need us.
Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator