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:(My Mother Passed Away ):

3 Aug 2017 07:34

My Wonderful Mother Passed Away Peacefully At Home Sad Wednesday 2 August 4:15 In The Afternoon Sad I can't Put Into Words At Moment How I'm Feeling Sad  

They picked my mothers body up Thursday 3 August at 10:00 in the morning Sad I didn't want 2 see her I couldn't with my partner talking some sense 2 me I went up the house . I glad I did it was so hard my sister dressed her in her own clothes what my mother picked Sad I just couldn't stop crying it didn't look like my mother Sad my sister was on one side and I was on another I remember crying and my head was down  I just couldn't believe what I was doing Sad b4 I went 2 my mothers house it was raining then out of the blue the sun shone through the window it was like the sun was shining on us it was strange feeling Sad I think I'm losing the plot my head all over the place all the knowing that we new my mother was going 2 die from bowel cancer u still not prepared 4 it when it do happens  Sad  SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad 

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3 Aug 2017 07:55 in response to Gemini39

Hello Gemini39,

On behalf of all the team here at Cancer Chat please accept our condolences. 

Thinking of you all at this difficult time. 

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator

 

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3 Aug 2017 09:06 in response to Moderator Renata

Sending you lots of love.x

 

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3 Aug 2017 09:28 in response to Gemini39

Oh Gemini,

I am so sorry to read this sad news. Yourmother would have know how much you loved her and you did everything you could for her

Sending heartfelt condolances from Mr and Mrs B  ,Brian

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3 Aug 2017 17:05 in response to Moderator Renata

Thank u all so much 4 the kind words x 

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3 Aug 2017 17:05 in response to Chrissie80

Thank u x 

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3 Aug 2017 17:06 in response to woodworm

Thanks Brian 4 the kind words means a lot u and Mrs B take x 

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3 Aug 2017 17:31 in response to Gemini39

Very sad to read your post Gemini.  My condolences to you and the family at this time of grieving.  Sometimes there are just no words to explain the emptiness. Sending hugs and keeping you in my thoughts.  Jules xx

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3 Aug 2017 21:08 in response to jules54

Thank u so much jules my heart broken x 

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3 Aug 2017 21:40 in response to Gemini39

Oh Gem, I am so, so sorry darling.  Take some comfort in knowing you were always there for her.  Thinking of you and all your family in your heartbreak and sending love and hugs.  

Hazel xx

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3 Aug 2017 21:56 in response to Gemini39

So sorry to read your news. I know the mixed emotions this can bring and hope that you are able to remember your Mum as she was before she became ill.

Best wishes

Dave 

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4 Aug 2017 11:36 in response to haze44

Thank u so much hazel x x 

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4 Aug 2017 11:37 in response to davek

Thank u 4 u kind words x 

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5 Aug 2017 16:23 in response to Gemini39

Got my mother funeral Monday 14 August how I'm going get through it . I'm dreading it it's the final good buy my heart broken I just want her back I do anything to have her back Sad  it's so sad Sad 

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5 Aug 2017 16:40 in response to Gemini39

Oh Gemini,

I will be thinking of you on that Monday. I found I was kept busy arranging the funeral and letting people know about my mothers passing, It didnt really sink in until after the funeral.

It all seemed unreal,  and that I would wake up and find it was all a bad dream. Even now nearly twelve years later I still miss her and the advice she used ti give. But I do believe a part of her is still here for every now and then I find myself saying or doing something and I realize its just what my mother would have said or done. Its not surprising really Gemini for our parents have helped shape the sort of person we are. I found it hard to accept at first but now I find it very comforting. I can just imagine her looking at me with dissaproval if I do something wrong.

Take care my forum friend and know we are thinking of you, Brian.