Mum passed away 26 September from Myleofibrosis and today she would have been celebrating 60 years with dad. We took dad out for a family lunch, I asked him if he was ok, he said he was but his eyes told me differently and it was so hard not to break down in front of him; tell him I miss her so much and I am heartbroken for him.
I read yesterday - 'my mum taught me everything except how to live without her', that sums it up really and the feelings still of regret, was I a good daughter, did she feel that she could confide in me, did we do everything we could to help her on the day she passed away. Mum also had Alzheimers but did recognise us all, I wish so much that I told her how much she meant to me, how much I loved her when she could have had those memories...I told her more how I felt in recent years but with the Alzheimers, not sure she remembered. I asked dad if mum knew how much I loved her and he said of course she did.
I can't seem to move on and still can't belive she's not here. I do know that she would have been upset to see me so sad, all of us really but its just so difficult. We dont have a choice though, I feel like you have ok days and then just awful gut wrenching days where everything seems pointless.