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Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

13 Jan 2021 19:57 in response to Chris2020

Mate I spent 2 hours with Rossella in the morning.

Made sure she was dressed in her lovely clothes.

Added photographs and personal things for us and her family.

Also filled with lots of sea shells that she loved to collect from beaches.

I help her hand and her head. I kissed her and talked to her.

Just me and her again and yes I cried.

I followed her coffin and cried again.

At the funeral greeted by warm friends - the ones that matter and who really care. And I cried again.

I cried during the ceremony.

And I cried afterwards and saw the tears in others.

We all shared the grief together as well as remembering what made Rossella a wonderful human being.

You have to allow all the grief to come out with your friends and family.

You can do it - it will be the toughest thing you've done but you will feel a 'bit' better at the end.

It's a part of the next journey.

Xx

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

13 Jan 2021 20:00 in response to Richard_K

And throughout I was asking her to stay with me and not go

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

13 Jan 2021 20:12 in response to Richard_K

Thank you I feel a bit better now I can do this and will for my wife . What's the next chapter?

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13 Jan 2021 21:12 in response to Chris2020

Good!

The next chapter? Whatever it is I just hope it can reignite the spark I once had inside.

Xx

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13 Jan 2021 21:42 in response to Richard_K

Thank you you are a big help mabe after all this COVID cra- we could meet up 

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

13 Jan 2021 22:02 in response to Chris2020

Sure thing mate! 

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

14 Jan 2021 09:16 in response to Richard_K

My thoughts are with you today. Xx

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14 Jan 2021 17:04 in response to ash53

Hi Ash, how have you been this week?

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

14 Jan 2021 17:14 in response to Richard_K

Hi Chris, you ok? (Silly question I know)

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

14 Jan 2021 17:37 in response to Chris2020

Hi Chris, how was it today? (Somehow I replied to myself earlier)

Meeting up with people who have lost loved one

14 Jan 2021 17:57 in response to Richard_K

 Hello mate  like you said it was perfect in a strange kind of way Everyone there completely loved Martyne but in a different way of course! Time kind off stopped  any every thing was about Martyne  so lovely  I'm sure she would of been proud of me  for giving her a perfect day. I'm back at home and think  what have I just done  been and sorted out a funeral she was only 39  we were went to have  along happy life together why didn't this happen ? F cancer it took  my wife and kids mum  so now the funeral is done now what???

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14 Jan 2021 18:13 in response to AlexMatthew

Yes she did.

I will get her ashes in a few days and will scatter them in Scotland (her wish) when the restrictions are lifted.

Xx

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14 Jan 2021 18:23 in response to Chris2020

Well done mate for doing it!

Of course she would have been proud of you.

Now somehow we have to live our lives ...... somehow.

For me I have one more thing to do - receive Rossella's ashes and scatter them in Scotland (her request). When it is my time I will have my ashes scattered in the same place.

Xx

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14 Jan 2021 18:47 in response to Richard_K

How lovely a beautiful place to be laid to rest.

Stay strong

Take care x

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14 Jan 2021 18:52 in response to Chris2020

Glad everything went ok for you all today Chris, your wife got the send of from you all she deserved, bless her, far too young but at peace finally from this dreadful decease. 

Stay strong and take one day at a time.

keep using this site it helps to chat.

take care x