Hello Debbie and welcome to Cancer Chat

It does sound like a difficult dilemma you are facing and I hope you can make the right decision for you. If you haven't done it already, it might be worth asking your medical team what they recommend in your situation whether there is an option for you that makes it the least likely that the cancer would come back. I think you might also benefit from talking to one of our cancer nurses and explain to them your different treatment options. They might be able to shed some light on certain aspects of each option. You can ring them on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm.

It can be so hard in a situation like yours to know what financial help is actually available. We have in-depth information on our website on the different types of financial support available which you can find here. There may also be benefits and charity grants you may be eligible for and a number of organisations offer financial advice so don't hesitate to contact them. Macmillan also have a very good financial support tool which you can access here. Try also contacting your nearest Citizens Advice Bureau and they will be able to offer you financial advice targeted to your particular needs. It does sound though like you have explored all possible avenues but worth keeping an eye on all the options and check if there is anything you might be eligible for in your situation.

I hope you manage to find out more to help you ease these financial pressures and that you also make the right treatment decision. I hope you will also hear from some of our members here who have been in a similar boat before and that they will be along soon to offer you some tips or advice based on their own experiences.

Best wishes,

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator