Hello everyone,
thankyou for taking the time to read this post.
unfortunatley as with many of you my dear grandad has recently been diagnosed with cancer. With his stay in hospital more things come to light. Originally he got diagnosed with cancer of the bowels that had spread to his chest/lungs. With his continued stay in hospital it come to light that it has spread to his bones and liver - in plain words unfortunately my grandad is riddled in cancer and we can only assume it will spread further. The doctors decided treatment was not the best idea due to his age and immobility. The cancer is terminal and now the drugs are for pain and to keep him comfortable. He is now home from the hospital and been given various drugs and a hospital bed to keep him comfy as his movement his very limited.
The reason for writing this post is because I feel there are some things my aunt/nan are not telling me regarding his cancer. I understand it is a very sensitive subject but feel due to me being the second to youngest grandchild (24years old) and loosing my mother at 15 they feel I’m may be too young or not strong enough to know these things. It’s very frustrating but at this time there is no need for harsh words or any problems to arise given everyone emotions are very high at the moment.
I want to know how’s long my grandad may have left. For me it’s something I want to know and be prepared for. I understand it’s not a definite answer for these things, it can happen quickly and go down hill. But in regards to the the actual diagnosis of the cancers, medically speaking how long do people live with this much cancer. He is still eating and drinking and can talk and respond just like he always has. He seem a bit drowsy sometimes from his drugs but that’s to be expected.
If anyone could give me any idea I’d be much appreciated, I don’t want to be left in the dark anymore.
Thankyou again for reading my post.
xxx