Hi 

I am new to this but would like to hear others experineces if they dont mind sharing.

My Dad was dignosed with terminal cancer 14 months ago and was given 3 months , Dad is still battling but it is heartbreaking and he has also developed vascular dementia , I have been told when he stops eating and drinking it will be end of life< I can honestly say I dont feel like this will ever happen and I dont know what to expect. 

My dad has lost weight is on the high dose of morphine  , has developed a secondary cancer the size of a grapefruit on his testicle and skin cancer as well as colon , pertina cancer but it sounds crazy still seems well apart from the dementia and i believe that is what is keeping him going beacuse he is so unaware.

Basically what i am asking is 

Can people still eat and drink at the end of life.

Be mobile very limited though.?

Every day we try to assess how things are and TBH i havent got a clue, my heart breaks every minute but I am emontially exhaused , my life has been on hold for 14 months (that sounds selfish but I do feel some days i need to get back on track) .

Sorry for the ramble dont really know what i am asking , maybe at the end will i know. xx