Hi everyone, 

im 19 years old and I’m really struggling at that moment. My mother who is 57 had a CT scan Tuesday just gone and she received a call on Thursday to say that they had found something on the scan and that she needs to come in. Her appointment is tomorrow and I’m so anxious, I just know it’s cancer. Her letter said that she is seeing someone from the urology consultants team which I think is probably to tell her she has it and prepare for a biopsy. I’m not sure whether if they think you have cancer whether you go to a oncologist straight away. I’m only 19 years old, I am an only child and I’m not close with my father. I already suffer with anxiety and depression and if my mum is diagnosed with cancer tomorrow I really am not sure how I will cope. I don’t really know what I’m asking for really, maybe some advice or if anyone knows who you see after a scan when they think it’s cancer? I’m just really anxious and upset because I know it isn’t going to be good news.