Hi, I found this forum today and thought it might help to join to talk with people going through similar things.
8 weeks ago my mum went to a&e in pain having lost the function in her legs. Prior to that she had been to gps, hospital appts and a&e in chronic pain since last summer only to be told they couldn't find anything.
She has been in hospital the past 8 weeks and has cancer of unknown primary which is incurable. It has now spread to her spine, it is aggressive and she still can't stand/ walk unaided. She is undergoing 10 days of radiation and has 3 sessions left. I don't know what will happen next, if she will get home and how long they can control the cancer for.
I'm 26 and until 8 weeks ago I could never have imagined this happening. It has been a real shock for me and I'm finding it emotionally difficult to process. I just wondered if anyone else had been through a family member having cancer or unknown primary or being my age and knowing a parent has incurable cancer...