Im not coping to well getting a lit of abuse from a ex about my body
Im not coping to well getting a lit of abuse from a ex about my body
He sounds really nice to be so supportive at this time. Unbelievable!
Colin
Welcome to the forum Soxxy although I'm really sorry to read about your situation.
I can't begin to imagine how difficult it must be having such negative input from your ex at this time. Many of our members here have found a network full of supportive friends and family has been very helpful during tough times so if it's possible maybe you could try and avoid seeing your ex during this transitional period in your life?
A good online network can be great too and I'm glad you've joined as our members are very supportive and will do all they can to help. I've found a few members - [@Tigerfeet] , [@rileyroo] , [@Sandra123] and [@Jbains] - who have experience of breast cancer and now I've tagged them in this post I'm sure they will stop by when they can to offer their support and share their experiences with you.
I've included some information we have on our website about coping with breast cancer for you to have a look at but if you have any questions or would just like to chat to someone about what you're going through do give our cancer nurses a call. They're available Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m on 0808 800 4040.
Kind regards,
Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator
Hi Soxxy
Sorry you’re in this boat with us. Feel free to contact me or anyone else for that matter to chat or vent.
Your ex sounds like a piece of work, what has your body got to do with him?
Hi soxxy
indeed we are here for u.... every step of the way if u want/need us.
do u want to share with us where abouts u are on your journey with BC?
your ex needs to grasp he is out of your life and has no say in anything - his input is no more. He sounds bitter and twisted. People like that say hurtful things to make themselves feel better. Give him not one minute of your thoughts. The title u have given him says it all - ex partner, ex time thief, ex emotional drain, the EX. You are done with him and his petty jibes.
Now is all about you and what you need to do to get through this - let’s us help you
take care me dear x
Well said Sandra.
Hi Soxxy. Sorry to hear of the unfair rubbish you're having at such a hard time. You just have to avoid your ex and any negative people as you need to concentrate on you and your health only. It's a tough journey but as the others have said we're in this all together and more than happy to support and chat. I finished treatment about 6 months ago and have not let any negative person back into my life. You need to be selfish and think of only yourself and your recovery day to day. Take each day as it comes. We're all here for you and your life just needs cleansing of people who are no good for you. There's a reason its "ex" so show the exit to them. This forum is the best therapy to discuss how you feel about all aspects of your life and it does help. Just remember - you're not alone. We're here with you and you got this!